4 Relationship Traps to Avoid & alternative methods to Keep Your Love Strong pt.2

4 Relationship Traps to Avoid & alternative methods to Keep Your Love Strong pt.2

Weekly Check-Ins

Every we have Monday Night Talks week.

These involved both of us being totally honest and sharing the things we felt good about that week and the things that upset us, along with a rating of how we currently felt about our relationship (1-10) in the beginning. Now, we miss out the score because we’re regularly within the range that is 8-10 however it had been a fantastic metric for all of us at the start.

Why? Because selecting a number is not hard starting place for explaining “Why.”

It is very easy to assume everything’s great since you think it is great, however when you’re hit with an urgent “We provide us with a 5 this week,” you’re forced to consider one other person’s emotions.

Monday Night Talks is well known tool. It offers conserved us from dropping into that trap of having upset, perhaps maybe not anything that is saying after which blowing up about any of it months later on.

These chats have to be a set date, every week—not a “whenever” talk.

Then you won’t get comfortable being so open with one another if you don’t set the date and stick to it every week. Then, if you have a grievance that is major atmosphere, you’ll be more prone to take a seat on it or get passive-aggressive about this.

Developing strong interaction practices early is key. Not just does it assist your spouse, but inaddition it can help you. Constant, truthful interaction builds trust and reduces the desire become protective. Then it’s not too late to start, but the earlier, the better if your relationship’s already in progress. Continue reading “4 Relationship Traps to Avoid & alternative methods to Keep Your Love Strong pt.2”